Gayle Bowlby

School Counselor

I have a BA in Journalism from Fresno State University and a MA in Counseling Psychology from Santa Clara University.   My career began in broadcast journalism, later I made a switch to animal welfare, and finally found my place providing counseling to teenagers.   I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Oregon and California, with specific training and experience in school-based counseling. I have included therapy dogs in my work. My current co-therapist, Vicky, is a Golden Retriever from the Assistance Dog Institute in Santa Rosa. She understands commands in English, Spanish and Japanese.

I believe resiliency is critical to students’ overall success in school. There is a lot of research suggesting this, but when I think of the trusting adults who guided me on my journey through adolescence, I know it to be true. In fact, I decided to work with teenagers in a counseling capacity after starting a program for at-risk teens while working at Peninsula Humane Society in San Mateo, CA. It became evident after a while that the kids coming to work with the animals were really there to connect with the adult volunteers also participating in the program.

My therapy dog, Vicky, inspires me in my work as TMS School Counselor. She teaches me to pay very close attention to peoples’ sensitivities. She notices EVERYTHING! I would also say my students inspire me; they constantly teach me about myself as a person and as a counselor.

I was drawn to TMS because it seemed very progressive and I really connected with Barbara Schakel, the former Head of School.  At the time I was commuting 90-minutes each way to my job at the Mental Research Institute in Palo Alto and the Sausalito location with an on-site dog park was a real bonus. It’s exciting to work with such an interesting mix of staff and students. In the future I would like to develop a social-emotional learning program at TMS and start an internship program for aspiring school counselors.

When I’m not working I enjoy cycling, hiking and working on my house.